(from top to bottom: maya, toni, tiffany, paz and joey)
dami akong friends from the advertising world. mga real friends ko. up to now we are still in touched. dami namin pinagsamahan. saya. pressures. failures. disappointments. triumphs. gulo. takipan at pagtotolerate ng mga trip at secret crimes ng bawat isa, etc...
si joey. ang tandem ko sa mga events that my previous company has mounted. magaling at professional. he got a girlfriend in tow for 7 years and they had a daugthter. ayaw nya pakasal. pabor sya sa live in forever. he felt that change is infinite and kung darating ang time na magbago sya or magbago ang partner nya, madaling mag-move out sa love nest nila at mag-move on without any legal battle. sya ata ang isa sa nag-influence sa akin na maging allergic sa commitment at marriage. kahit anung pilit ng gf nya "say no to marriage" ang response ni joey. may trauma ata sa marriage coz he was a product of a broken home. he's committed to his work as an event specialist. kung si tim yap ang eventologist si joey naman ang reliable event manager for me and my bosses..dose-dosenang events ang pinagsamahan namin ni joey.big events..small events o simpleng promotional campaign e tandem kami.. dahil sa pagsasama namin, masasabi kong malaki ang effect nun sa perception ko about life, career at having a commitment (which i find less interesting as of now)..presently, wala na sila ng gf nya. the girl is living on her own. joey lives with his daughter and a yaya. totoo nga na dumating na ang time that both of them have changed and decided to take different paths. si joey opted to stay single and remained as one of the best event planners sa industry.. the ex-gf opted to find a man whom she will live happily ever after with a marriage contract. last time ko nakita si joey e 2007 pa pero malalim ang friendship namin. di nya alam na naging parang ako na sya pagdating sa perception tungkol sa heart matters. kung di ko kaya nakilala si joey, magiging live-in material pa rin b ako o future ideal partner? sabi ni joey, hindi naman sya katoliko at hindi sya isang babaeng nabuntis out of wedlock na pilit na gustong ipakasal ng ultra conservative Catholic family nito...e hindi sya ganun e. so walang reason para magpakasal. anu ba plano ni joey? ang huling usap namin e..mag-save for the future para sa kanyang retirement at sa kinabukasan ng daughter nya. hmmm, wla pa talagang balak mag-asawa ang tandem ko. live in forever at companionship lang ang only option nya just in case na ma-inlove ulet.
kung si joey ang tandem ko sa events..si paz naman ang fave account executive ko sa mundo ng magazines at broadsheets. medical practitioner turned account executive si paz. single ang status pero may boyfriend and a loved child. mistress sya ng pamilyadong bf. lagi nyang hinaing sa amin e pagod na raw sya sa ganitong setup pero kapag sya naman ang inuwian ng bf nya e nakakalimutan nya ang lahat ng hinaing nya tungkol sa relasyon nya rito. she feels that she deserves more though she always accepts the little time his bf can offer to her and to their child. alam nyang second priority lng sya. pero happy naman daw sya (minsan, dahil minsan lang sya uwian). pero madalas, she aspires for more coz she knows naman what she deserves in the first place. sabi nga ni paz when you love a person it doesn't matter kung kung gaano kahaba ang oras na ibinibigay sau ng mahal mo.. ang importante e nabibigyan ka pa rin ng konting panahon. sa konting panahon na naibibigay e winner na rin yun para sa isang mistress. bkit winner? dahil kung wla ng time for you ang tao, ang mistress na dating 2nd priority lng e magiging 3rd priority pa. loser na yun kung nagkataon. si paz pa naman e goal driven. career oriented at fighter. kung di nya makuha ang gusto lumalaban pa rin. at dahil she knows what she deserves, nakikipag-date pa rin sya sa iba. merong single, merong pamilyado, malakas talaga sya sa pamilyado (at lesbians). ayaw rin pakasal ni paz. ok sya sa companionship. cool sya sa idea na dapat may quality time (once in a while) sila ng partner nya kahit di pa sya ang uuwian nito. maybe she accepted the fact that she's not the marrying type. mid-30's na sya so slim na ang chance to meet a guy na single at willing magpakasal sa isang unwed mom with an ongoing relationship sa isang married man. the last time i heard about her, nasa dubai na sya with a new guy of her life. nag-move on na nga at na-realized nyang she could start a new life sa tamang way. good thing single si new bf. there's a big improvement on her decision making. pero wala pa rin syang plan to get married. live in pa rin ang favorable setup for her in dubai..
si tiffany e pretty girl. prudukto ng isang exclusive school for girls. she's my assistant sa previous work. we're very close. ma-appeal. back then, she had a bf for almost 5 years..at may ka-on din na lesbian at the same time for more than a year. bisex si tiffany. at ako lang ang nakakaalam sa opis since kami ang magka-eded. her ex bf wants to get married na coz he's stable financially at sobrang tagal na nila. however, she was not ready yet or maybe she was torn with her complex relationships. she didn't know kung cnu sa bf or gf ang matimbang. she was also dating other guys that she met sa mga events namin. iba si tiffany sa lahat. i was her partner in crimes of passion. i even joiend her to go out of town coz her lesbian lover wants to introduce her to the family. so gumawa kmi ng bogus na event. we made palabas to everyone that we attended an event organized by our media partner. nakalusot naman. 3 days yun. si tiffany and her lesbow lover e nagbond ng sobra. ako ang iskorer (hehehe) at naka-relax rin naman away from our demanding and slave-driver bosses. di nagtagal e nabuking din sya ng mom nya. pinag-overnight nya kasi si lesbow gf sa haws nila and they slept in her room. the following day, without their knowledge, tiffany's mom arrived unannounced after the mom went to church (one sunday moring), nahuli sila na kissing and hugging. ayun na-confront ang dalawa at dun na naputol ang same sex affair ng friend ko. presently, wla na cla ng bf nya for 5 years. yung former lesbow lover nya e nasa middle east na at camel na ata ang gustong ka-trip (hehehe). NEWS: tiffany just delivered a baby girl somewehere in south courtesy of her fling na eventually ay napakasalan sya. happy naman sya coz tahimik na raw ang buhay nya. pero she clarified na nagpapahinga lng sya at wait and see lng raw ako. hindi yun banta kundi reminder nya that she's still the same person i have known and learned to accept and to love.
si maya, ang tanging naiwan sa mga demanding kong bosses. naiwan namin sya ni tiffany dun. sya na ngaun ang go to girl ng kumpanya. she's handling the entire operations. big time! she deserves it. she's a loyal employee. 10 years and counting...hapi naman sya pero just recently gusto na nya makipaghiwalay sa husband nya for 5 months. irreconcilable differences raw. showbiz! wala daw cla quality time together. she claims, the guy always ingnores her and she feels that she is not his top priority. ganito si maya kapag may di nakuhang gusto, feeling nya ini-ignore sya. for her, break-up ang sagot para mai-communicate nya na the tampo she's hiding or the pain that she really can't express. minsan, nagkita kami for a merienda somewhere then we met his hubby afterwards (na tropa ko na rin). after dinner, hinatid na ako ni hubby malapit sa area ko. si hubby nag-vent. he claims, maya wants a separation but he does not agree with the girl's proposal. sabi ni hubby, heloves the girl so much at the reason why maya is asking for a separation is hindi pa sya over sa ex nyang gwapo pero silahista (raw!). the ex bf naman daw keeps on communicating to maya and in fairnness to her, honest naman sya kay hubby that her ex is trying to settle the unfinished business. the ex bf got married sa isang older woman na naka-based sa spain. bigtime na rin si ex bf pero mukha pa ring silahis. si ex bf ay super invite kay maya to visit spain and he's willing to sponsor her kung gusto nya mag-stay for good..eto raw ang rason kung bakit feeling ni guy e gusto syang hiwalayan ni maya..alam kong over na si maya. even maya has clarified the issue. friends n lng daw cla ni ex pero kung kailangan sya ni ex, she will make sure that nandun sya for the ex bf..tsk..tsk. kumplikado yun.and she agreed. though it was an unfinished business for the ex bf, kay maya, friends na lng tlga. well, good thing, si hubby opted to stick with her. according to him, he's commited to the marriage..si maya di ko pa nakausap ulet. at di pa naman sya nag-complain about her marriage last time i checked...
si toni naman ang pinakabubbly na production manager na nakilala at naging kaibigan ko sa TV industry. she started working in this TV network after graduating college from one of the top universities d2 sa metropolis. she got 2 kids from 2 different boyfriends of her. she doesn't believe in marriage. she's vocal about it and she values her freedom of choice and individuality. she doesn't believe in the power of marriage license. she aspires to become successful in her TV career pero never nyang naging dream ang maging ideal wife..(cguro beautiful partner at mom pwede pa). unfaithful rin si toni. kahit cla pa ni current bf e nakikipagdate pa rin sya. di naman daw bawal coz she's technically a single woman with 2 kids from 2 guys she never wishes to settle down with.she's very modern or shall i say very woman of the world.
eto ang motto nya: kung type nya at type sya go for gold sya. kung type nya at ayaw sya she'll settle for the silver. pero kapag ayaw na nya at gusto pa rin sya..tatansuin na nya ang partner at disappearing act ang final solution.
sila ang mga friends ko.complicated human beings kumpara sa iba. hindi sila perfect pero we jived so well. they taught me a lot. they have influenced my present outlook in life. ngayon ko lang napag-ugnay ang mga dahilan kung bakit ako ganito..dahil sila ang mga kaibigan ako.. at kami ay pwedeng ilagay sa iisang kategorya (non-commital society, marriage defficiency syndrome, major intimacy issues gang)..
si joey. ang tandem ko sa mga events that my previous company has mounted. magaling at professional. he got a girlfriend in tow for 7 years and they had a daugthter. ayaw nya pakasal. pabor sya sa live in forever. he felt that change is infinite and kung darating ang time na magbago sya or magbago ang partner nya, madaling mag-move out sa love nest nila at mag-move on without any legal battle. sya ata ang isa sa nag-influence sa akin na maging allergic sa commitment at marriage. kahit anung pilit ng gf nya "say no to marriage" ang response ni joey. may trauma ata sa marriage coz he was a product of a broken home. he's committed to his work as an event specialist. kung si tim yap ang eventologist si joey naman ang reliable event manager for me and my bosses..dose-dosenang events ang pinagsamahan namin ni joey.big events..small events o simpleng promotional campaign e tandem kami.. dahil sa pagsasama namin, masasabi kong malaki ang effect nun sa perception ko about life, career at having a commitment (which i find less interesting as of now)..presently, wala na sila ng gf nya. the girl is living on her own. joey lives with his daughter and a yaya. totoo nga na dumating na ang time that both of them have changed and decided to take different paths. si joey opted to stay single and remained as one of the best event planners sa industry.. the ex-gf opted to find a man whom she will live happily ever after with a marriage contract. last time ko nakita si joey e 2007 pa pero malalim ang friendship namin. di nya alam na naging parang ako na sya pagdating sa perception tungkol sa heart matters. kung di ko kaya nakilala si joey, magiging live-in material pa rin b ako o future ideal partner? sabi ni joey, hindi naman sya katoliko at hindi sya isang babaeng nabuntis out of wedlock na pilit na gustong ipakasal ng ultra conservative Catholic family nito...e hindi sya ganun e. so walang reason para magpakasal. anu ba plano ni joey? ang huling usap namin e..mag-save for the future para sa kanyang retirement at sa kinabukasan ng daughter nya. hmmm, wla pa talagang balak mag-asawa ang tandem ko. live in forever at companionship lang ang only option nya just in case na ma-inlove ulet.
kung si joey ang tandem ko sa events..si paz naman ang fave account executive ko sa mundo ng magazines at broadsheets. medical practitioner turned account executive si paz. single ang status pero may boyfriend and a loved child. mistress sya ng pamilyadong bf. lagi nyang hinaing sa amin e pagod na raw sya sa ganitong setup pero kapag sya naman ang inuwian ng bf nya e nakakalimutan nya ang lahat ng hinaing nya tungkol sa relasyon nya rito. she feels that she deserves more though she always accepts the little time his bf can offer to her and to their child. alam nyang second priority lng sya. pero happy naman daw sya (minsan, dahil minsan lang sya uwian). pero madalas, she aspires for more coz she knows naman what she deserves in the first place. sabi nga ni paz when you love a person it doesn't matter kung kung gaano kahaba ang oras na ibinibigay sau ng mahal mo.. ang importante e nabibigyan ka pa rin ng konting panahon. sa konting panahon na naibibigay e winner na rin yun para sa isang mistress. bkit winner? dahil kung wla ng time for you ang tao, ang mistress na dating 2nd priority lng e magiging 3rd priority pa. loser na yun kung nagkataon. si paz pa naman e goal driven. career oriented at fighter. kung di nya makuha ang gusto lumalaban pa rin. at dahil she knows what she deserves, nakikipag-date pa rin sya sa iba. merong single, merong pamilyado, malakas talaga sya sa pamilyado (at lesbians). ayaw rin pakasal ni paz. ok sya sa companionship. cool sya sa idea na dapat may quality time (once in a while) sila ng partner nya kahit di pa sya ang uuwian nito. maybe she accepted the fact that she's not the marrying type. mid-30's na sya so slim na ang chance to meet a guy na single at willing magpakasal sa isang unwed mom with an ongoing relationship sa isang married man. the last time i heard about her, nasa dubai na sya with a new guy of her life. nag-move on na nga at na-realized nyang she could start a new life sa tamang way. good thing single si new bf. there's a big improvement on her decision making. pero wala pa rin syang plan to get married. live in pa rin ang favorable setup for her in dubai..
si tiffany e pretty girl. prudukto ng isang exclusive school for girls. she's my assistant sa previous work. we're very close. ma-appeal. back then, she had a bf for almost 5 years..at may ka-on din na lesbian at the same time for more than a year. bisex si tiffany. at ako lang ang nakakaalam sa opis since kami ang magka-eded. her ex bf wants to get married na coz he's stable financially at sobrang tagal na nila. however, she was not ready yet or maybe she was torn with her complex relationships. she didn't know kung cnu sa bf or gf ang matimbang. she was also dating other guys that she met sa mga events namin. iba si tiffany sa lahat. i was her partner in crimes of passion. i even joiend her to go out of town coz her lesbian lover wants to introduce her to the family. so gumawa kmi ng bogus na event. we made palabas to everyone that we attended an event organized by our media partner. nakalusot naman. 3 days yun. si tiffany and her lesbow lover e nagbond ng sobra. ako ang iskorer (hehehe) at naka-relax rin naman away from our demanding and slave-driver bosses. di nagtagal e nabuking din sya ng mom nya. pinag-overnight nya kasi si lesbow gf sa haws nila and they slept in her room. the following day, without their knowledge, tiffany's mom arrived unannounced after the mom went to church (one sunday moring), nahuli sila na kissing and hugging. ayun na-confront ang dalawa at dun na naputol ang same sex affair ng friend ko. presently, wla na cla ng bf nya for 5 years. yung former lesbow lover nya e nasa middle east na at camel na ata ang gustong ka-trip (hehehe). NEWS: tiffany just delivered a baby girl somewehere in south courtesy of her fling na eventually ay napakasalan sya. happy naman sya coz tahimik na raw ang buhay nya. pero she clarified na nagpapahinga lng sya at wait and see lng raw ako. hindi yun banta kundi reminder nya that she's still the same person i have known and learned to accept and to love.
si maya, ang tanging naiwan sa mga demanding kong bosses. naiwan namin sya ni tiffany dun. sya na ngaun ang go to girl ng kumpanya. she's handling the entire operations. big time! she deserves it. she's a loyal employee. 10 years and counting...hapi naman sya pero just recently gusto na nya makipaghiwalay sa husband nya for 5 months. irreconcilable differences raw. showbiz! wala daw cla quality time together. she claims, the guy always ingnores her and she feels that she is not his top priority. ganito si maya kapag may di nakuhang gusto, feeling nya ini-ignore sya. for her, break-up ang sagot para mai-communicate nya na the tampo she's hiding or the pain that she really can't express. minsan, nagkita kami for a merienda somewhere then we met his hubby afterwards (na tropa ko na rin). after dinner, hinatid na ako ni hubby malapit sa area ko. si hubby nag-vent. he claims, maya wants a separation but he does not agree with the girl's proposal. sabi ni hubby, heloves the girl so much at the reason why maya is asking for a separation is hindi pa sya over sa ex nyang gwapo pero silahista (raw!). the ex bf naman daw keeps on communicating to maya and in fairnness to her, honest naman sya kay hubby that her ex is trying to settle the unfinished business. the ex bf got married sa isang older woman na naka-based sa spain. bigtime na rin si ex bf pero mukha pa ring silahis. si ex bf ay super invite kay maya to visit spain and he's willing to sponsor her kung gusto nya mag-stay for good..eto raw ang rason kung bakit feeling ni guy e gusto syang hiwalayan ni maya..alam kong over na si maya. even maya has clarified the issue. friends n lng daw cla ni ex pero kung kailangan sya ni ex, she will make sure that nandun sya for the ex bf..tsk..tsk. kumplikado yun.and she agreed. though it was an unfinished business for the ex bf, kay maya, friends na lng tlga. well, good thing, si hubby opted to stick with her. according to him, he's commited to the marriage..si maya di ko pa nakausap ulet. at di pa naman sya nag-complain about her marriage last time i checked...
si toni naman ang pinakabubbly na production manager na nakilala at naging kaibigan ko sa TV industry. she started working in this TV network after graduating college from one of the top universities d2 sa metropolis. she got 2 kids from 2 different boyfriends of her. she doesn't believe in marriage. she's vocal about it and she values her freedom of choice and individuality. she doesn't believe in the power of marriage license. she aspires to become successful in her TV career pero never nyang naging dream ang maging ideal wife..(cguro beautiful partner at mom pwede pa). unfaithful rin si toni. kahit cla pa ni current bf e nakikipagdate pa rin sya. di naman daw bawal coz she's technically a single woman with 2 kids from 2 guys she never wishes to settle down with.she's very modern or shall i say very woman of the world.
eto ang motto nya: kung type nya at type sya go for gold sya. kung type nya at ayaw sya she'll settle for the silver. pero kapag ayaw na nya at gusto pa rin sya..tatansuin na nya ang partner at disappearing act ang final solution.
sila ang mga friends ko.complicated human beings kumpara sa iba. hindi sila perfect pero we jived so well. they taught me a lot. they have influenced my present outlook in life. ngayon ko lang napag-ugnay ang mga dahilan kung bakit ako ganito..dahil sila ang mga kaibigan ako.. at kami ay pwedeng ilagay sa iisang kategorya (non-commital society, marriage defficiency syndrome, major intimacy issues gang)..
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